Who do you think of when you picture someone talking in monotone? I personally think of Ben Stein who did the Clear Eyes commercials a few years back. His voice remained at the same tone throughout the commercial. He did not show any excitement whatsoever in the product he was selling. He was just straightforward, [...]
Continue reading...8. October 2007
I finally finished my vision board a couple of weeks ago with some pushing from my mastermind group. For the uninitiated, a vision board is a poster with images of what you want to have, do and be in your life. The idea behind this is the same as putting your goals, tasks and intentions [...]
Continue reading...14. March 2007
Remember those goals you set out at the beginning of the year? So this is March, and what have you done? Yup, welcome to the reality gut-check post – not for the faint-hearted. After years of setting goals; achieving some and not others, I realized the difference that makes the difference is you must have a way [...]
Continue reading...7. January 2007
I know, I’m 7 days late. Remember that rough patch I was telling you about? I’m still roughing it out, but I’m feeling better and better as time goes by. Some of you already know – I broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe one day I’ll share the lessons I learnt from that, but not [...]
Continue reading...11. June 2006
What’s The Next Best Thing To Do? I’ve been living on a more micro than macro level the last couple of months, ever since being inspired by Adrian Savage’s The Simplest Path to Success post. Instead of asking myself, ‘what would go on my 10 year plan?’, I’m just asking ‘what’s the next best thing to [...]
Continue reading...10. February 2006
This may a little bit deviate from Alvin’s theme on Gratitude. At the same time, from another angle it’s really related because you should be gratify of all the challenges that is coming into your life. And that’s reason why you should be comfortable coming out of your comfort zone. If you remember the earlier post by [...]
Continue reading...31. December 2005
Since we’re nearing the new year I’m sure many of us will be taking this chance to reflect on the year past and renew on the year ahead. I thought this would be a nice time to make a distinction between setting goals, and setting directions. What is a goal? Simply put, a goal is a [...]
Continue reading...19. December 2005
Before you start wearing your holiday hat, there are few things you could do before X’Mas eve. Pull out your journal right now and complete these 3 activities within next 10 mins. 1) List down your 3 highlights of 2005. Something that worth remembering, something that make yourself proud, something that happen because you’ve put those effort [...]
Continue reading...19. December 2005
I visit China regularly, and my recent trip teach me something that I would like to share with you, it’s a “Hand Pump” Have you use such the pump before? “I have never seen one in Singapore”. You might say. Yes, because this type of pump is only constructed in the location where drought is common. [...]
Continue reading...7. November 2005
As promised, I will be focusing on How you can deal with ‘Precursors of Failure’ patterns in this post. Some simple strategies. 1) Threshold blow-out What I mean by threshold blow-out is to exaggerate your pattern to the extent that it becomes ridiculous. You will know you have done it when you find yourself laughing at what [...]
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30. July 2008
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