The obvious follow-up to a post like The Meaning of Your Communication is The Response You Get is this next Neuro-Linguistic Programming presupposition: You Cannot Not Communicate We’re all always communicating, even when we don’t mean to or want to. Remember when I wrote that words only form 7% or so of our communication, the [...]

In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP): The Meaning Of Your Communication is The Response You Get Ever have a time when you were sure you were being totally clear, but the other person heard something else? One way to deal with that is to blame: it’s their fault they didn’t get it. But then they didn’t get [...]

The most controversial and easily misunderstood of all the Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) presuppositions: Every behaviour has a positive intention Widely contested and misunderstood, until you add in this second half that makes it easier to understand: Every behaviour has a positive intention, just not always for everyone else Every behaviour you, I and everyone else [...]

Continuing with the NLP 101 series, we come to the next presupposition: There is No Failure Only Feedback (I prefer to say Learning Experience) In NLP we say there is no such thing as success, failure, happiness, depression, good taste (accounts for euro-trance). Not that people don’t feel these things, but that they’re convenient labels [...]

What are The NLP Presuppositions? The most basic and essential parts of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) are the presuppositions. Think of the NLP presuppositions as the guiding principles or beliefs holding the NLP model up, like how a programming language maintains an entire computer operating system. Without the programming language, you can’t build the operating system [...]

In NLP 101: So Dark the Con of NLP, I said that the most important bit about NLP isn’t if it’s real, if it’s fake, or even if it’s a marshmellow. The most important bit is if it works for you, in your own life. So let me share with you a little bit about [...]

In which we continue from NLP 101: What is NLP? Part 1 and NLP 101: What is NLP Special for The Super NLP Hardcore, to answer the age old question: What is NLP? Who is NLP? When is NLP? and, is NLP better than sex? What does Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) mean anway? If NLP is [...]