By which my friend Eleutherios assures me is the Kabbalistic (and poetic) equivalent of Steve Pavlina’s three principles of personal growth; truth (wisdom), love (beauty) and power (strength). This post has been a long time in coming, and in it I’ll explain why in order for me to move towards truth, love and power, I’ve [...]
How to Create a Place of Power
More and more I am coming to realize that there can be no real leadership unless there is self-leadership, and that self-leadership can be one of the hardest and loneliness things to do, which is probably why so few people do it. Like not letting anyone or anything affect you emotionally unless you let it, [...]
Who Leads Your Reality?
What’s the difference between someone who’s led around by the nose and someone who does the leading? In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), we learn about the Law of Prerequisite Variety: the element in any system that has the most flexibility will end up leading the system. Think of little children, they have incredible flexibility. To get [...]
Bring something new to the table
A leader is someone who brings something new to the table. What do I mean? Imagine a bunch of chefs making a cake. As long as you keep doing it the same way, the cake will end up the same each and everytime. Even if you change the steps, like mixing it a bit more, [...]
Dealing with Problems
One blog that I enjoy reading and always get something useful out of is Hot Points by Go Daddy‘s founder and president Bob Parsons (if you’re not that net saavy, Go Daddy isn’t about anything kinky, but is one of the net’s premier domain name registrars). I was reading his article about dealing with problems [...]