Life Coaches Blog

Revisiting Cambodia

This is not going to be the usual read where you will get some tips to kick ass your life or questions to set you reflecting about yourself. I’m here for the sole reason of sharing my experience when I revisited the Cambodian kids during Christmas last year. It’s been a year since I step into [...]

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A Smile can bring you further than a Mile

It’s been a month since I came back from my Cambodia expedition. But I can still see the smiles of the children vividly and hear them laughing heartily in my ears. Oh gosh, I do miss them a lot. The smiles they wear on their faces are so different from what I see back here [...]

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Revealing the Hidden Assumptions

Everyone of us function daily on the basis of our assumptions. Assumptions are formed from the day we are born. We have to assume things like our transport will take us to where we want to go, the bank will keep our money safely, etc etc in order to prevent too much conscious thinking and [...]

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Listen before Giving

Hi to all readers, sorry for missing in action for the past few weeks. I was away in Cambodia for community service at this village named Koh Krobey. I had a fruitful experience and I learnt a great deal from the children living in the same village as me. As a volunteer, it is just [...]

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Emotional Labour vs Emotional Exhaustion

I wanted to share what I read about emotional exhaustion in this post. But I realize I had to explain one important concept ie emotional labour before that. Labour requires putting in effort and from my readings, the performance of emotional labour can be executed mainly in the three following ways as proposed by Ashworth [...]

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How You can Achieve Success… … Everytime Part 3

As promised, I will be focusing on How you can deal with ‘Precursors of Failure’ patterns in this post. Some simple strategies. 1) Threshold blow-out What I mean by threshold blow-out is to exaggerate your pattern to the extent that it becomes ridiculous. You will know you have done it when you find yourself laughing at what [...]

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How You can Achieve Success… … Everytime Part 2

Have you already identified your Precursors of Failure? This would be of greater benefits to you if you have done that. Now that you begin to become more and more aware of your patterns, you can too now make use of these patterns to work for you. How? Start sharing them. With whom? Those you mix around with most often. [...]

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Motivation that lasts

Alvin mentioned in an earlier post that motivation is a real-world process that has been turned into a thing through imprecise language. You don’t have motivation, like a car or watch, you do motivation, which is an abstract idea (you can’t hold, see, or hear motivation physically). motivation is a process which has to be carried [...]

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How You can Achieve Success… … Everytime Part 1

I know I’m making a VERY BOLD statement here, so am I just making an empty promise? Read on. We all know that Success demands consistent hard work and seldom is achieved overnight. Hence, likewise, failure is not attained in a blink of the eyes. Usually, there is a sequence of events that precedes failure. Realizing this [...]

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