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Making others feel good for No Good Reason

The past 2 installments of the No Good Reason (NGR) series carried you through AA (Attitude Adjustment) to handle your negativity and the apparent reason for NGR. The next AA is something you can take much further and it is more than just positive habit forming. Let me bring the end to the front by stating [...]

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Get in Action

I’ll like to credit Alvin for this post coz it’s actually an add-on to the last post he made (writing it under comments will be too darn long). I highly recommend that you read that first. If you’re still reading this before you’ve read his post, I insist that you go ahead and do it now. [...]

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Attitude Adjustments 1.1.1: The Apparent Reason for No Good Reason

Now that you’ve discovered how you can be empowered as easily as you can find yourself speaking the mantras that you choose. I wonder if you have installed some powerful stuff for yourself? Some of you may ask whether this a form of self-deceit? Let’s be honest here, when was the last time a belief, an [...]

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Attitude Adjustments 1.1: Feeling Good… for No Good Reason

OK people, besides this being a catchy headline, it’s about a way of life…living it anyway. I’ve no idea who to credit for purporting this concept in the very first place and the collective consciousness is kind and will reward such genius!! Consider how much negativity is out there. Have you considered the pervasiveness of Murphy’s [...]

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Negativity Interruptus

Have you ever blamed everything and everyone for bad things that happened to you? Are you incapable of holding yourself in higher esteem? Do you bad-mouth yourself? “I’m not experienced enough.” “I’m too old.” “I don’t have the time” “I can’t remember….” “I can’t do it….” “Shit!!” “It’s not MY fault!!” “I’m an idiot!!” Are you guilty of subjecting to be antagonized by the words and [...]

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Personal Matra

Every once in a while, especially when I play Coach in the Patterns of Excellence(POE) Workshop, I get requests to model my strategy to deal with difficult people and stressful situations. Some people are surprised how easy it is. To spare you the technicalities of an actual NLP modeling session, the core of my strategy is a [...]

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