A traditional Japanese tea room is exceedingly simple, with a bare minimal of decoration, helping the participants of the tea ceremony to focus on just what is at hand. In other words, the room and the ceremony are made to help people just be.
I think there is great value in this being. Lately I’ve noticed myself getting more and more anxious, more and more worried that certain things wouldn’t go well, that things just weren’t good enough.
I was letting myself forget to appreciate the good that was already in my life; the things that were once a dream that are now a reality and how so much better my life has become.
My mind had wandered off to exist in some faraway place instead of just being in the moment.
I sometimes end up having the attitude that spending time doing absolutely nothing, or doing something just for leisure is a plain waste of time. But I’ve found great things to come out of taking time off to do nothing and be nothing. My mind clears, anxiety lifts and new ideas come.
Is it because the act of taking time off tells your mind that there is always more than enough time? That you are time-rich?
Whatever the case, I will be in a rustic little spot of Thailand come this time tomorrow, for the next few days. I found it thanks to a little online review, and I’m looking forward to the first trip I’m making where I’m going slightly off the beaten track.
See you soon, and I hope you take your time off to just be as well.
Photo by beggs.
November 8th, 2007 at 5:11 pm
Respect. Your post came timely. Often we find ourselves in pursuit of greater things , only to have forgotton the little pieces picked up along the way.
November 8th, 2007 at 7:52 pm
Yes Alvin I think just being is what a lot of us forget to do. I hope your time in Tahiland gives you space to reflect and renew.
November 8th, 2007 at 7:54 pm
I hope you like the Chiangdao Nest as much as I do. Say hi to Stuart and Wicha for me (not sure they remember me).
November 9th, 2007 at 11:34 pm
This comes at a perfect time.
I have a problem just being. I am always thinking what I need to do next or what I am missing somewhere else.
We are going on a family trip to the Smokey Mountains in Tennessee this weekend. I am going to try my best to be “there”.
Enjoy your weekend as well.
Thanks to you for all your posts. I look forward to it each day.
Peace
Tim Hill
November 17th, 2007 at 11:21 am
Have an enjoyable trip!
November 18th, 2007 at 6:08 am
Funny to see this post here. Just today I was looking online to rent a log cabin in the catskill mountains for a weekend. A place to go and just be. Let us know how you trip goes, enjoy.