By which my friend Eleutherios assures me is the Kabbalistic (and poetic) equivalent of Steve Pavlina’s three principles of personal growth; truth (wisdom), love (beauty) and power (strength). This post has been a long time in coming, and in it I’ll explain why in order for me to move towards truth, love and power, I’ve [...]
The Art of Attracting and Seducing Women
This is the post that’s been forming the last couple of weeks and kept me debating myself whether or not to write it. In the end, it took one of my best friends to tell me to do what I felt was right, and for me to tell myself to do what feels honest. You [...]
Who Leads Your Reality?
What’s the difference between someone who’s led around by the nose and someone who does the leading? In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), we learn about the Law of Prerequisite Variety: the element in any system that has the most flexibility will end up leading the system. Think of little children, they have incredible flexibility. To get [...]
Empowering Links: Week of 8th April
Thought can influence reality is different from thoughts create reality. If you’ve been swept up in The Secret fervor, Stuart Davis offers the best explanation about it that I’ve read, including hundreds of blog and forum posts. Read The Secret: The Spirituality of Narcissism and get it, truly get it. No one else is the [...]
When Honesty Isn’t Urgent
How ironic that I was just blogging about the difference between the urgent and the important. The important often doesn’t act on you, you have to act on it. Sometimes it’s that gap you need to bridge between you and your father. Sometimes it’s that talk you never thought you could have with your brother. [...]
Getting Your Life On Track Part 4
In Getting Your Life On Track Part 1, we discovered a way to find out if the things we spend our time on are really that urgent and important. In Getting Your Life On Track Part 2 we revealed how you could use that understanding to develop clear and important goals for yourself, so you’d [...]