I believe that wherever you are right now is the result of what youâ€™ve done in the past. Supernatural Law of Nature, cause and effect, always applies in life. And of course, what you are doing today will impact your tomorrow outcome.
Yes, it includes LOVE.
This post is about making that choice happen â€œTrue Loveâ€
How would you describe your current relationship (or future relationship, if you donâ€™t have one now) with your partner in one word? Passionate? Tragic? Drama? Enlightened? Ecstasy? Lucky?
The following 3 simple steps process are for you to make CONSCIOUS CHOICE about your relationship
1: Make a Wish List:
a) Imagine your dream partner and make a list of the quality by answer this question â€œWhat type of person I want to be with?â€ Quality or character of your partner, what is their habits, the more details, the better it is. E.g. â€œLove, kind-hearted person with passion, energy and flexibility, dark, tall and handsome, gorgeousâ€
b) Make the 2nd list of â€œWho would the person a) be attracted to?â€ What type of man/woman that person a) want to be with? Quality or character of the person that suitable or match with partner of your dream? Who will attract person in a) list?
2: Bridge the Gap:
Take a look at the list in item b) and look at yourself in the mirror. What are the similarities or differences of you and person b)? Make a decision to improve yourself to that standard. It is your choice to attract the person of your dream, by becoming of the person who attracted to person of your dream.
For those who already in the relationship you can induce the other partner to change by changing yourself first. And it is even better if you can do this exercise together along side with your partner so that you will understand each other more and clarify certain things.
When I listed this down; this step was painful at first, because the gap was so much. And after traumatized by that fact, I began to realize that… hey, itâ€™s me not anyone else and if itâ€™s me, I can do something about it !!!
3: Growth Your Choice:
Once you decide to bridge the gap, you have to nourish it, nourish new you, just like new born baby who need mother care. Grow the new you by use all the obstacle or temptation as stepping stones.
Express not Impress. All you need to do is express yourself, not try to impress others. Express new you out, be the change you want to make. And expressing is your choice; you have full control over that. On the other hand trying to impress other is merely put control of your emotion to others and you donâ€™t have a choice anymore.
Miracle will happen when you keep with faith, wisdom and perseverance in action.
True-Love-Is-A-Choice is about heart, your heart (not othersâ€™ heart). And your heart is the door to the other partner heart because it takes oneâ€™s heart to touch the otherâ€™s heart. Make your true love a choice.