Comments on: Empathy Before Solutions: Special Rant for NLP Practitioners http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/ Improve Your Life Sat, 24 Jul 2010 02:59:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: sumy http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/comment-page-1/#comment-71444 sumy Mon, 19 Mar 2007 07:24:29 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=230#comment-71444 This was indeed a great piece of info shared... I still have one question... How well do you think that Meta Model can help in Corpoarte communication?? This was indeed a great piece of info shared… I still have one question… How well do you think that Meta Model can help in Corpoarte communication??

]]> By: Pete http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/comment-page-1/#comment-1982 Pete Fri, 28 Apr 2006 07:34:26 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=230#comment-1982 Oh wow! Let's not forget the Negation Spewers and Apposition Oppositers who won't not collectively forget to remember to be unconsciously conscious of the organised chaos they create in other's own mind when what they should not keep throwing away is the need to un-dis-establish rapport when the purpose is to not not communicate simply. And what are you not saying that I do not understand yet I might when I may...is just a couple of dazed away? Alvin...soon? Hey Andreas!! Care to pass along some business ideas since we are in neighbouring countries? How do you market your services? Oh wow! Let’s not forget the Negation Spewers and Apposition Oppositers who won’t not collectively forget to remember to be unconsciously conscious of the organised chaos they create in other’s own mind when what they should not keep throwing away is the need to un-dis-establish rapport when the purpose is to not not communicate simply.

And what are you not saying that I do not understand yet I might when I may…is just a couple of dazed away? Alvin…soon?

Hey Andreas!! Care to pass along some business ideas since we are in neighbouring countries? How do you market your services?

]]> By: Alvin http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/comment-page-1/#comment-1883 Alvin Wed, 26 Apr 2006 09:57:02 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=230#comment-1883 Hey Andreas, what specially do you mean by me meta-modeling you, and how would you know that... Just kidding! :P Great to see another NLPer hanging around here. I've checked out your blog a bit, looks interesting plus the fact that you've been blogging way longer than we have! Will visit again :) Since you're a fellow NLPer, I just might warn you...Milton Monsters have been spotted in the wild too, be careful, they like to hypnotise their prey with grammatically incorrect gibberish before boring the victim to death...watch out! :P Hey Andreas, what specially do you mean by me meta-modeling you, and how would you know that…

Just kidding! :P

Great to see another NLPer hanging around here. I’ve checked out your blog a bit, looks interesting plus the fact that you’ve been blogging way longer than we have! Will visit again :)

Since you’re a fellow NLPer, I just might warn you…Milton Monsters have been spotted in the wild too, be careful, they like to hypnotise their prey with grammatically incorrect gibberish before boring the victim to death…watch out!

:P

]]> By: Andreas http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/comment-page-1/#comment-1875 Andreas Wed, 26 Apr 2006 03:33:59 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=230#comment-1875 Totally agree. I learnt this in the Master Prac. In the Prac course, we learnt the Meta Model and I wondered why sometimes, "people" got upset with all my strange questioning. In the Master Prac, I was made to understood that we have to have a goal in mind for a conversation and that it is important to direct the questionning in accordance with that goal. It is also okay to let some generalisations, deletions and distortions slip. To maintain rapport when coaching clients is more important than questionning all the verbalities from a client. Okay - and don't meta-model me here with all my own statements :) Totally agree. I learnt this in the Master Prac. In the Prac course, we learnt the Meta Model and I wondered why sometimes, “people” got upset with all my strange questioning. In the Master Prac, I was made to understood that we have to have a goal in mind for a conversation and that it is important to direct the questionning in accordance with that goal. It is also okay to let some generalisations, deletions and distortions slip. To maintain rapport when coaching clients is more important than questionning all the verbalities from a client.

Okay – and don’t meta-model me here with all my own statements :)

]]> By: Alvin http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/comment-page-1/#comment-1874 Alvin Wed, 26 Apr 2006 02:32:05 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=230#comment-1874 Tee hee no comment :P Tee hee no comment :P

]]> By: brenda http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/04/25/empathy-before-solutions-special-rant-for-nlp-practitioners/comment-page-1/#comment-1843 brenda Tue, 25 Apr 2006 16:26:02 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=230#comment-1843 ha ha ha ! We do have quite a handful of Meta Monsters in our fraternity =p ha ha ha ! We do have quite a handful of Meta Monsters in our fraternity =p

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