Upping Your Attraction Quotient
For anyone who needs help with attracting the opposite sex (that’s everyone I think, unless you swing the other way, then it’s about attracting the same sex), my dating expert friend Kloudiia has interesting articles on upping your Attraction Quotient (AQ).
Hence, the question here is, how to make yourself attractive? Not all of us, in fact, most of us are not blessed with killer features and a devilish figure. Natural result – a less than 10 score in the looks department.
However, good news is, there are ways to make yourself appear more attractive, because attractiveness is something that is perceived, rather than, actual. And we all know that perceptions can be changed, don’t we?
So far she’s revealed delicious tippings on upping your looks, image, and the art of conversation.
I hope there’re more goodies to come! Now, from a not so dating expert (me!), my thoughts are; how about manifesting a sparkling attitude? You know the aura of charisma that flows from positive energy? Sometimes all it takes to glow from within is starting from a good state.
Before you go on that all important date, make yourself feel absolutely on top of the world! Play a song you love to groove to that gets your energy way up, or re-run some great memories in your head, revisit and redouble the good feelings they give you, or just imagine how perfect the date ahead is going to be; how the 2 of you are going to have a fantastic time, lots of laughter and smiles, building an intense connection that just keeps going on and on, enjoying the time and space that belongs to the 2 of you.
I agree that a key to self management is self esteem. I would offer that true life inspiration happens when you find something you love to do and make it a part of your everyday experience. Here’s an exercise:
1. Write down 10 things you love to do or that bring you the most joy. I call this the “You List”
2. Then record how many times a day you do one of the things on your list
3. Give each day of the week a rating from 1-10
4. Your best day usually comes out to be the day you do the most things on your “You List”
I can easily relate to the first part of the story, in the past I was one of those people pretending you have done something and then be very uncomfortable when someone asks more detailed questions.
It is not a good feeling and being upfront from the beginning really saves you the embarassment later.