Comments on: The Hero’s Journey Part 4: Crossing The Threshold http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/ Improve Your Life Wed, 28 Dec 2011 12:44:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Pete http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/comment-page-1/#comment-986 Pete Sun, 12 Mar 2006 10:18:21 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=164#comment-986 Actually tas, as a Life Coach, the provocative approach is just one of my many tools. Have you been appropriately provoked to think about the comments that you make and the stance you take when you do so? My highest positive intention is to learn and have others learn with me. 'Permanance' and 'change' is on it's own conflicting yet whhen you put them together it makes sense and takes a new meaning: it's oxymoronic. Actually tas, as a Life Coach, the provocative approach is just one of my many tools.

Have you been appropriately provoked to think about the comments that you make and the stance you take when you do so?

My highest positive intention is to learn and have others learn with me.

‘Permanance’ and ‘change’ is on it’s own conflicting yet whhen you put them together it makes sense and takes a new meaning: it’s oxymoronic.

]]> By: tas http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/comment-page-1/#comment-964 tas Fri, 10 Mar 2006 10:11:08 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=164#comment-964 Dear Pete, Well understanding you are the master of provocative approach. hm... I'm doing my best to read your intention and match your highest positive intention in the msg above. Er... probably I'm naive or slow... Can you eleborate??? I dont get "The paradox of the permanance of change is exactly that. “true changeless-ness” is an oxymoron. " I dont get your intention of the msg above. to confuse me or complicate what I've mention?? =P tas Dear Pete,
Well understanding you are the master of provocative approach.
hm… I’m doing my best to read your intention and match your highest positive intention in the msg above. Er… probably I’m naive or slow… Can you eleborate???
I dont get “The paradox of the permanance of change is exactly that. “true changeless-ness” is an oxymoron. ”
I dont get your intention of the msg above. to confuse me or complicate what I’ve mention?? =P
tas

]]> By: Pete http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/comment-page-1/#comment-963 Pete Fri, 10 Mar 2006 08:09:48 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=164#comment-963 tas whatever comment you make to people about the stance you intend to take. It's good to return to the basics and remember the importance of building rapport while you are saying it...unless of course the purpose of your saying it is to break rapport with the person you are speaking to :) The paradox of the permanance of change is exactly that. "true changeless-ness" is an oxymoron. Even the nature of change itself, is that of ambivalence: on the one hand you crave for the good that will will come; on the other you hold on to the familarity of the comfort zone. tas whatever comment you make to people about the stance you intend to take. It’s good to return to the basics and remember the importance of building rapport while you are saying it…unless of course the purpose of your saying it is to break rapport with the person you are speaking to :)

The paradox of the permanance of change is exactly that. “true changeless-ness” is an oxymoron.

Even the nature of change itself, is that of ambivalence: on the one hand you crave for the good that will will come; on the other you hold on to the familarity of the comfort zone.

]]> By: tas http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/comment-page-1/#comment-952 tas Thu, 09 Mar 2006 07:27:51 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=164#comment-952 oophs that's a line that I accidentally paste in. =P Well 'attitude' in this sentence here is a genralisation or in LP is normalisation for person's personality. So do I have a personality that you can't take? ;P oophs that’s a line that I accidentally paste in. =P
Well ‘attitude’ in this sentence here is a genralisation or in LP is normalisation for person’s personality. So do I have a personality that you can’t take? ;P

]]> By: Alvin http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/comment-page-1/#comment-944 Alvin Wed, 08 Mar 2006 15:23:49 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=164#comment-944 'That' you're already doing is the constant shifting act of balancing in motion, because everyone who's alive is doing that. Yup, maybe it is about flexibility after all? I don't catch this line "I do not have an attitude, I have a personality that you can’t take." So you don't have an attitude I can't take? ‘That’ you’re already doing is the constant shifting act of balancing in motion, because everyone who’s alive is doing that.

Yup, maybe it is about flexibility after all?

I don’t catch this line “I do not have an attitude, I have a personality that you can’t take.” So you don’t have an attitude I can’t take?

]]> By: tas http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/07/the-heros-journey-part-4-crossing-the-threshold/comment-page-1/#comment-943 tas Wed, 08 Mar 2006 06:24:13 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=164#comment-943 Yes I agree that wanting not to lose something and still change is not possible. Well my situation here puts me in a dilemma… I’m being torn btw 1) making a choice to change and fit into the crowd or environment’s expectation, perception and so on…. 2) And my belief and thinking of “I do not live up to anyone’s expectation, I change only becos I wanna/see a need to change.” So I can’t put myself to really balance and find out a resolution or resource btw these two… =P Well perhaps I really feel strongly not to compromises with pple’s expectations…=P) Ahhhh…… must do parts integration liao…. =P I like this line that you wrote: “And is change always not being true to yourself, or is it only unfamiliar?” well…yup probably is unfamiliar… bah… Another good one is “To change with change is the only true changeless state.” Hm… change with change = true changeless. Well I think it somehow relates to FLEXIBILITY (One with more flexibility get in control or better of situation.) I don’t catch this line “You’re doing that already”. What’s “that” that I’m doing??? I do not have an attitude, I have a personality that you can’t take. Yes I agree that wanting not to lose something and still change is not possible. Well my situation here puts me in a dilemma… I’m being torn btw 1) making a choice to change and fit into the crowd or environment’s expectation, perception and so on…. 2) And my belief and thinking of “I do not live up to anyone’s expectation, I change only becos I wanna/see a need to change.”
So I can’t put myself to really balance and find out a resolution or resource btw these two… =P Well perhaps I really feel strongly not to compromises with pple’s expectations…=P)
Ahhhh…… must do parts integration liao…. =P
I like this line that you wrote: “And is change always not being true to yourself, or is it only unfamiliar?” well…yup probably is unfamiliar… bah…
Another good one is “To change with change is the only true changeless state.” Hm… change with change = true changeless. Well I think it somehow relates to FLEXIBILITY (One with more flexibility get in control or better of situation.)
I don’t catch this line “You’re doing that already”. What’s “that” that I’m doing???

I do not have an attitude, I have a personality that you can’t take.

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