Comments on: Your Map is in my Territory http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/ Improve Your Life Tue, 16 Mar 2010 14:49:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Kloudiia’s Kit: Dating Affairs | Dating Love Relationship Romance » Archives » What Is Your Lingo, Mate? http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/comment-page-1/#comment-15340 Kloudiia’s Kit: Dating Affairs | Dating Love Relationship Romance » Archives » What Is Your Lingo, Mate? Tue, 19 Sep 2006 10:01:15 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=89#comment-15340 [...] The same theory applies to how you communicate with your partner! If your partner doesn’t understand what it is you are conveying, then it is time that you have to change your method of communicating. There are many reasons why they couldn’t make sense of what you are saying. Some of these could be they having a different model of the world, their proficiency in the language you are speaking, their mood at that point of time or even the words that you aren’t speaking but are showing through other forms like body language. [...] [...] The same theory applies to how you communicate with your partner! If your partner doesn’t understand what it is you are conveying, then it is time that you have to change your method of communicating. There are many reasons why they couldn’t make sense of what you are saying. Some of these could be they having a different model of the world, their proficiency in the language you are speaking, their mood at that point of time or even the words that you aren’t speaking but are showing through other forms like body language. [...]

]]> By: dean http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/comment-page-1/#comment-3871 dean Sat, 03 Jun 2006 08:16:07 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=89#comment-3871 Very needed information found here, thank you for your work Very needed information found here, thank you for your work

]]> By: Alvin http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/comment-page-1/#comment-511 Alvin Sun, 18 Dec 2005 16:16:16 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=89#comment-511 Damn Pete, you lovable brilliant hunk. I would never call you a 'Bastard', never...when you ask for it ;P (I think I've just been provoked into not doing something) The good NLPers can tell if they're relevant. The better NLPers turn whatever into a relevance they can use. And the best create relevance relevantly. Damn Pete, you lovable brilliant hunk. I would never call you a ‘Bastard’, never…when you ask for it ;P

(I think I’ve just been provoked into not doing something)

The good NLPers can tell if they’re relevant. The better NLPers turn whatever into a relevance they can use. And the best create relevance relevantly.

]]> By: Pete http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/comment-page-1/#comment-507 Pete Thu, 15 Dec 2005 18:23:51 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=89#comment-507 Strictly speaking, <strong>"The Map is not the Territory"</strong> is usually explained away in NLP such: The Territory is Reality; the Real World; the absolute truth and fact. The Map is our perception, filter and feelings that defines the Territory. The good NLPer looks at content. The better NLPer looks at context The discerning ones knows the difference. The best NLPer learns even while being confused and can even confuse while giving learnings. The lame ones think confusing others is the only way to make them good. The good better discern else they become lame. The meaning of my response is the communication you get :-P So Alvin, what do you think of this as a provocative approach? If your response is "Damn Pete, if only the relevant people get it...." Then, The Map is not the Territory, buddy. Do I hear you saying, "Bastard....." :-P :P Strictly speaking, “The Map is not the Territory” is usually explained away in NLP such:

The Territory is Reality; the Real World; the absolute truth and fact.

The Map is our perception, filter and feelings that defines the Territory.

The good NLPer looks at content.

The better NLPer looks at context

The discerning ones knows the difference.

The best NLPer learns even while being confused and can even confuse while giving learnings.

The lame ones think confusing others is the only way to make them good.

The good better discern else they become lame.

The meaning of my response is the communication you get :-P

So Alvin, what do you think of this as a provocative approach?

If your response is “Damn Pete, if only the relevant people get it….”

Then, The Map is not the Territory, buddy.

Do I hear you saying, “Bastard…..”

:-P :P

]]> By: tas http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/comment-page-1/#comment-506 tas Thu, 15 Dec 2005 16:42:00 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=89#comment-506 Interesting say. "Your territory is in my map." Suggests openness...! possibility!? openness for insights of including a territory into a map. hm.... It really takes well flexibility to work in the map with ones' territory. ;> hm.... on e other hand, presupposites ........smthing......well can think of wat's to it rite now. :-P Anyway, interesting insights of Your map, Pete, to my territory. ;> Interesting say. “Your territory is in my map.”
Suggests openness…! possibility!?
openness for insights of including a territory into a map.
hm…. It really takes well flexibility to work in the map with ones’ territory. ;>

hm…. on e other hand, presupposites ……..smthing……well can think of wat’s to it rite now. :-P

Anyway, interesting insights of Your map, Pete, to my territory. ;>

]]> By: Alvin http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/15/your-map-is-in-my-territory/comment-page-1/#comment-503 Alvin Thu, 15 Dec 2005 07:15:12 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=89#comment-503 Hahaha 'Your Territory is in my Map'. I like that Pete! Hahaha ‘Your Territory is in my Map’. I like that Pete!

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