Comments on: The Quality Question http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/02/the-quality-question/ Improve Your Life Wed, 28 Dec 2011 12:44:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: poker wild http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/02/the-quality-question/comment-page-1/#comment-216965 poker wild Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:10:07 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=84#comment-216965 <strong>poker wild...</strong> efficacy forenoon beaker!regarded raised pyramid ... poker wild…

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]]> By: tas http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/02/the-quality-question/comment-page-1/#comment-498 tas Tue, 13 Dec 2005 19:06:38 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=84#comment-498 Just a sudden trace of thought.... What's a useful question to ask when encounter with a situation where my thoughts travel way fast in time than the pple I'm communicating with in a conversation and I'm mis-matching them in thinking and conversation by speeding to outcome, steps, conclusion..... hm..... (heee...:-P keee..... jst practising this questioning strategy ...) hm... pause for a moment. can i braise with time and freeze my thoughts for a while and still allow information or more clues to surface before I jump the gun too fwd??? hm... rapport and communication is a dance... guess i can link back and structure my thoughts.... OOpphs... er....sorry. this's a place for comments and feedback..... :-P jst testing it out..... :-P Just a sudden trace of thought….
What’s a useful question to ask when encounter with a situation where my thoughts travel way fast in time than the pple I’m communicating with in a conversation and I’m mis-matching them in thinking and conversation by speeding to outcome, steps, conclusion…..
hm…..
(heee…:-P keee….. jst practising this questioning strategy …)
hm… pause for a moment. can i braise with time and freeze my thoughts for a while and still allow information or more clues to surface before I jump the gun too fwd??? hm… rapport and communication is a dance… guess i can link back and structure my thoughts….
OOpphs… er….sorry. this’s a place for comments and feedback….. :-P jst testing it out….. :-P

]]> By: Pete http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/02/the-quality-question/comment-page-1/#comment-464 Pete Sun, 04 Dec 2005 17:12:10 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=84#comment-464 Hey Sumita! If you love this, let your friends know. Heh heh. Get your mum on this to, coz Anu will appreciate this as much as you. Alvin, after you've shared the quality question method with us a while back. We've all had a chance to apply it and put our own spin on it. It does make me expand the limits of my answers. One thing I am still struggling with while using this approach during coaching is finding a faster route to generate an positive response instead of a "huh?" punctuated with a blank look. The elegance of a QQ is lost when the subject fails to expand his model of the world. So it's to be used with discretion and only if you are calibrating the person you are working with exquisitely. Now what I find really useful is when I use this as a pattern interrupt to probe for something that would expand things beyond just useful. Thus it's useful as a challenge to check on the well-formedness of an outcome thought to have already achieved. I often use this a a prelude to value-elicitaion and belief change exercise too. You are right, I've not read about this anywhere and you can claim it unabashedly as Alvin's QQ. Haha. Congrats!! Hey Sumita! If you love this, let your friends know. Heh heh. Get your mum on this to, coz Anu will appreciate this as much as you.

Alvin, after you’ve shared the quality question method with us a while back. We’ve all had a chance to apply it and put our own spin on it. It does make me expand the limits of my answers.

One thing I am still struggling with while using this approach during coaching is finding a faster route to generate an positive response instead of a “huh?” punctuated with a blank look.

The elegance of a QQ is lost when the subject fails to expand his model of the world. So it’s to be used with discretion and only if you are calibrating the person you are working with exquisitely.

Now what I find really useful is when I use this as a pattern interrupt to probe for something that would expand things beyond just useful.

Thus it’s useful as a challenge to check on the well-formedness of an outcome thought to have already achieved.

I often use this a a prelude to value-elicitaion and belief change exercise too.

You are right, I’ve not read about this anywhere and you can claim it unabashedly as Alvin’s QQ. Haha. Congrats!!

]]> By: sumita http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/12/02/the-quality-question/comment-page-1/#comment-462 sumita Sat, 03 Dec 2005 17:36:44 +0000 http://lifecoachesblog.com/?p=84#comment-462 hey there guys! good to know that i can even hear out AKLTG's coaches even when i'm chilling away at home.I love this blog.Keep up the fabulous work guys.Adios! hey there guys! good to know that i can even hear out AKLTG’s coaches even when i’m chilling away at home.I love this blog.Keep up the fabulous work guys.Adios!

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