Comments on: Postponing Your Worries

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By: Pete

Pete — Mon, 21 Nov 2005 08:23:51 +0000

Fact #1: You can never be the worst. Saying the “worst” frames you up to find the situation bad.

So if it’s not useful, leave it out. KISS my friend.

Stop dwelling and move on is so much better.

Fact #2:There’s no need to return to the associated negative state. When you return to review the situation, you’ll definitely find a resolution. Note it’s not solution that I’m talking about here.

By: tas

tas — Mon, 21 Nov 2005 04:12:17 +0000

Well maybe I should phase it this way
“I’m not the worst, stop dwelling and move on …..”
Strategy in POE context,
reframe and spring off with resourceful state. =)

Well I kinda like the way Pete mention to save it for later, and when we leave the negativity out someone may come along and steal it off. =)

(but bearing in mind not to return to the associated negativity state…
maybe when we are ready, to return as a 3rd party point of view and view the situtation perhaps new resolution may surface. =P)

Jst sharing my 2cents worth of senses….=p

By: Pete

Pete — Sun, 20 Nov 2005 20:14:39 +0000

Hey be careful tas

The “what else” could be the “worst” that happens rather than “moving on”.

If it’s useful and beneficial to you, let it shine man!!

Thanks for sharing!

By: tas

tas — Sun, 20 Nov 2005 16:07:10 +0000

Jst sharing a line that i uses.
“i’m not the worst, and what else could happen then to leave this and move on…” =P

By: Pete

Pete — Sat, 19 Nov 2005 07:20:52 +0000

I’ve been using this technique for quite a while now. Especially when it’s crunch time and I’m feeling negative over the things I have to do pronto.

“Save it for later….”

“Not now, later…..”

When you leave the negativity out, someone’s gonna come along and just steal it away from you.

Great post Alvin!!