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		<title>By: Alvin</title>
		<link>http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/11/16/turning-if-only-around/comment-page-1/#comment-284</link>
		<dc:creator>Alvin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2005 16:12:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>P.S. The &#039;if only what you say is true...&#039; is especially brilliant.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S. The &#8216;if only what you say is true&#8230;&#8217; is especially brilliant.</p>
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		<title>By: Alvin</title>
		<link>http://lifecoachesblog.com/2005/11/16/turning-if-only-around/comment-page-1/#comment-274</link>
		<dc:creator>Alvin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2005 02:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha Pete, this comment is chock full of so much good stuff you should write it up as a post :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha Pete, this comment is chock full of so much good stuff you should write it up as a post <img src='http://lifecoachesblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Pete</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pete</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2005 21:26:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If only my parents are richer, I&#039;d have an easier time.

Wow Alvin, you mean we are out of the CLUMSY meta-modeling (of non-enlightened NLPer) mode already?

&quot;Richer than who?&quot;

&quot;Easier compared to what?&quot;

&quot;How is your parents being richer, make you choose to believe that you&#039;d have an easier time?&quot; (!!!)

We all know of people who&#039;re still uncovering objections in that manner, don&#039;t we?

How about saying:

&quot;Most successful people are not born with a silver spoon in their mouth&quot; (Change chunk size)

&quot;How else can you have an easier time without asking that your parents are richer.&quot; (probability frame)

&quot;Are your children going to lament the same thing?&quot; (apply-to-self)

&quot;Hey they are making it easier for you to outshine them...you get all the glory&quot; (context reframe)

&quot;If I&#039;m going to say that, how can you be tactful about responding to me?&quot; (provocative therapy)

&quot;If only what you say is true.....&quot; (utilization)

&quot;Awwww... where does it really hurt?&quot; (threshold blowout)

&quot;Does it mean that success is any less sweeter?&quot; (change frame size)

&quot;How are you Feeling better about it?&quot; (mind-fucking)

&quot;If only your aunt has balls, she&#039;ll be your uncle!!&quot; (petelogy)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If only my parents are richer, I&#8217;d have an easier time.</p>
<p>Wow Alvin, you mean we are out of the CLUMSY meta-modeling (of non-enlightened NLPer) mode already?</p>
<p>&#8220;Richer than who?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Easier compared to what?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;How is your parents being richer, make you choose to believe that you&#8217;d have an easier time?&#8221; (!!!)</p>
<p>We all know of people who&#8217;re still uncovering objections in that manner, don&#8217;t we?</p>
<p>How about saying:</p>
<p>&#8220;Most successful people are not born with a silver spoon in their mouth&#8221; (Change chunk size)</p>
<p>&#8220;How else can you have an easier time without asking that your parents are richer.&#8221; (probability frame)</p>
<p>&#8220;Are your children going to lament the same thing?&#8221; (apply-to-self)</p>
<p>&#8220;Hey they are making it easier for you to outshine them&#8230;you get all the glory&#8221; (context reframe)</p>
<p>&#8220;If I&#8217;m going to say that, how can you be tactful about responding to me?&#8221; (provocative therapy)</p>
<p>&#8220;If only what you say is true&#8230;..&#8221; (utilization)</p>
<p>&#8220;Awwww&#8230; where does it really hurt?&#8221; (threshold blowout)</p>
<p>&#8220;Does it mean that success is any less sweeter?&#8221; (change frame size)</p>
<p>&#8220;How are you Feeling better about it?&#8221; (mind-fucking)</p>
<p>&#8220;If only your aunt has balls, she&#8217;ll be your uncle!!&#8221; (petelogy)</p>
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